Feeling connected to someone is an amazing thing. It's comforting to have someone who you can just be yourself around and talk to about your deepest thoughts and desires. Most importantly, it feels amazing just knowing that someone will always be there for you, won't give up on you and who just loves you unconditionally.
That feeling of being in love is only temporary. Sometimes, you have to be patient and wait for someone to make the next move. Other times though, it'll be up to you to do that. Relationships take a certain amount of balance and reciprocation, and doing things with force won't always resolve the issue nor will it guarantee better results. So in other words, you have to be selfless; give back as often as you can and make the most of the good moments you get in return.
In all honesty, I feel like it takes a more mature perspective in order to have the kind of relationship you want from someone. The more experience you get, the more prepared you'll be in the long run. However, one has to find the lessons learned in the mistakes they make. If you keep making the same mistakes over and over again without any regard, then that's probably a sign that you need to slow down and take some time to think about what's not working out within you.
Love is not something to take lightly or take advantage of period. Everything you do must be done with thought and awareness. As someone who's been through 3 years of experience with love and dating personally, I hope that these insights will be taken into some form of consideration.
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